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婚姻盟约书 Restoring the foundations ministry MARRIAGE COVENANT 婚约
Names: Date: GOALS AND COMMITMENTS 目标与委身 1. I have left all others to be one with you. I will put you before all others. You are first. 1. 我已离开所有人，与你连合，成为一体。我将你放在所有人之前。你是第一。 2. I choose to become one with you, in body, soul, and spirit. I open myself to God to bring this oneness into existence on this earth. 2. 我决志，与你合而为一，不管是体、魂、灵。我向神敞开自己，迎接神将这种“一体”赐下。 3. I choose to be a safe place for you. 3. 我决志作你的安全之所。 4. I choose to support you and build you up with my words, thoughts, and deeds. 4. 我决志，支持你，建立你，不管在言语、思想及行为上。 5. I choose to act according to the love for you that is in my heart today, not according to the old wounds. 5. 我决志，按照今日我心里对你的爱而行事，而非按照昔日的伤害而行事。 6. I choose to put your needs before my needs or the needs of others. 6. 我决志，将你的需要摆在自己的需要及所有人的需要之前。 7. I choose to help you grow, not to accuse you or tear you down. Please help me grow without accusing me or tearing me down. 7. 我决志，帮助你成长，而不指责你或拆毁你。也请帮助我成长，不要指责我或拆毁我。 8. I choose to appreciate our differences and to depend on your strengths. I acknowledge and accept that we complement each other. 8. 我决志，欣赏我们的不同之处，并依靠你的力量。我承认并接受我们可因互补而更完全。 9. I choose to honor you, provide a cover for you, and be a productive partner with you. 9. 我决志，尊敬你，遮盖你，并成为你有益的搭档。 10. I choose to believe you have my best interests in your heart, that you want and expect good things for me, that will be a blessing to me, and that you will help God bring blessings into my life. 10. 我决志，相信你心里考虑我最好的益处，你想要并期望我得好处，那将成为我的祝福，而且藉着你，神要赐福给我。 11. I choose to remove myself from the ‘Control-Rebellion-Rejection Stronghold Cycle.’ I will not cooperate with the demonic any longer to stay trapped in this cycle. 11. 我决志，脱离我“控制、抵抗、拒绝的防卫循环”。我将再也不任由恶者将困我在这循环里。 12. (Husband) I commit to love you, , as Christ loved the Church, and as He gave Himself for Her. I commit to nourish the potential that God has placed within you. 12. （丈夫） ，我委身爱你，正如同基督爱教会，并且为教会舍命。我也委身于帮助你发挥神放在你生命中的潜力。 13. (wife) I commit to love, honor, and respect you, . I commit to nourish the potential that God has placed within you. 13. （妻子） ，我委身爱你、尊荣并敬重你。我委身于帮助你发挥神放在你生命中的潜力。
GROUND RULES FOR HANDLING HURT 处理伤害的基础原则 1. If and when we get into a hurtful and/or sensitive area, one of us can call a Truce and the other will honor it. 1. 假如当我们进入了一个伤害性或敏感性的领域，任一方都可以呼叫暂停，而另一方要尊重这个请求。 2. We will agree to set aside time to discuss the hurtful and/or sensitive area. 2. 我们将达成共识划出时间来讨论这个伤害性或敏感性的领域。 3. The other one can set the time, either right then or later, but within a reasonable period of time. 3. 另一方可以设定时间，可以是当下或稍后，但是须在一个合理的时间段。 4. When we meet, we will pray to put the Lord in charge of the time and to mutually submit to each other. 4. 当我们展开问题时，我们要一起祷告求神掌管这段时间，并彼此顺服。 5. Each one will ask the Lord to show him/her his/her part in the hurt. 5. 任一方都该求主在这段伤害中，显出各自的责任。 6. Each one prays for the other as well as for self, for God’s maturing and sanctification, and for His divine control and perfecting of our marriage. 6. 任一方都该为对方祷告就像为自己祷告一样，求神使对方成长并成圣，求神全然地掌权，并完全我们的婚姻。
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