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Prepare For A Date. Always be prepared, works forthe boy scouts and it works for us. Follow Videojug'ssimple five-step guide to preparing for a date toensure you get that special someone! Ideal video foryour first date. 为约会做准备。时刻准备着，这句话不仅适用于男童军，也适用于我们。遵循Videojug的五个简单步骤，为约会做准备，确保你找到合适的人。这对于初次约会来说是非常适用的。 Step 1: Preparation 1.准备 In the days before a date take time out to catch up with current events and hot topics. Theseare great conversation starters and you will be able to impress your date with yourknowledge. Try to remember as much as you can about previous conversations together soyou can follow up on them, be it a difficult project they were working on, or their best friendshair disaster. 约会前的几天花费时间恶补一下时事和热门话题。这些都是打开对话比较好的内容，你会因为自己的博学而给对方留下深刻印象。试着尽可能多的记住你们以前对话的内容，这样就可以追溯上回内容，可以是他们正在做的一个比较艰难的项目，或者他们最好的朋友的发型灾难。 Have a couple of funny stories or conversation pieces up your sleeve in case you need them. 提前预备好几个比较有趣的故事或对话，备用。 Step 2: Presentation 2.外表 If you look your best, you will project confidence. Set time aside for exercise in the daysbefore the date. Eat well and get plenty of early nights. 如果外表看上去很好，你会产生信心。约会之前的几天抽出一点时间来练习一下，保持良好的饮食和充足的睡眠。 On the day itself bathe well and ensure you have clean hair and nails. You should smell good,but not overpowering. Avoid heavy perfumes and aftershaves, you date could be allergic. 约会当天好好沐浴，确保头发和指甲干净。你应该保持比较好的体味，但是不要过分。不要喷味道太浓的香水和须后水，你的约会对象可能过敏。 Ladies, go easy on the make-up, aim for a natural but groomed look. If things go well he willeventually see you without make-up - and you will want him to recognize you at that point. 女士们，妆化的淡一点，自然漂亮就好。如果事情进展顺利，他最终会看到你不化妆的样子，你肯定希望他认可你的本来面目。 Have you outfit planned in advance. This way you won't have any last minute panics when yourealize you have a spaghetti stain down you favourite shirt. Make sure you are comfortable inwhat you are wearing, this will make it easier to relax. 提前计划好要穿的服装。这样就不会因为你最喜欢的衬衫染上污垢而在最后时刻出现慌乱。确保你的穿着舒适，这样更容易让你放松下来。 Step 3: Attitude 3.态度 Think positive. Your going out to enjoy yourself after all. Don't start worrying about whatdisasters could happen, that way they are far more likely to. If you are getting nervous, call agood friend, watch your favourite comedy show or listen to upbeat music. Focus on having funand you inevitably will. 思想一定要积极乐观。你外出约会毕竟是为了让自己开心。不要担心会出现什么不好的状况，这样就会怕什么来什么。如果你紧张的话，可以找好朋友聊一下，看一下最喜欢的喜剧，或者听一些积极向上的励志歌曲。你的想法集中在开心方面，最终一定会开心。 Step 4: Timing 4.时间 Be punctual. Give yourself plenty of time to get to your rendezvous. Keeping your date waitingwill kick things of on the wrong foot. 一定要准时。给自己充足的时间到达约会地点。让你的约会对象等待太长时间会让事情变得很糟糕。 Step 5: Encourage Chivalry 5.鼓励绅士风度 When you are with your young gentleman, hold back a little as you approach the door, this willforce him to open it, then naturally hold it open for you. Remember to thank him demurely asyou go through. 当你和年轻男士同行而且来到门前时，别急着开门。这会迫使男士上前去开门，并很自然地帮你把门拉住。这时候别忘了优雅地说声谢谢。 When it comes to sitting down, use the same tactic. If he takes his chair without holding yoursout, stand just long enough for him to notice his mistake, then sit, keeping your kneestogether at all times of course. Smile, sulking is for petulant teenagers, he will be relieved youhave brushed over his embarrassment and won't forget again. 当你们准备落座时，也可以采取相同的策略。如果他只抽出了自己的椅子而忽略了你的，你只需要站在那不动，直到他意识到自己的错误。坐下以后始终保持双膝并拢，并对他报以微笑。只有任性的小年轻才会生闷气。你对他的失误一笑而过会让他倍感释怀，下次再也不会忘记了。 Step 6: Talk the talk 6.注意言谈 All your good work could come undone if your mouth runs away with you, a lady doesn'tdivulge too much about herself or talk coarsely about the latest sexual position. Only swear ifyou absolutely must, try replacing offensive words with words like "Drat", or "Heavens toBetsy". 如果你管不住自己的嘴，那以上所有的努力都会白费。一位淑女绝不会对自己的事情夸夸其谈，也不会俗不可耐地去议论花边轶事。只有在绝对必要时才会轻声咒骂，而且要用“见鬼了”“老天啊”这样的词语来代替那些脏话。 Listen carefully and flatter him when appropriate. Never play dumb, if you don't agree with hisopinions say so, but with a smile as you state your reasons to curb getting drawn into anargument. 要仔细聆听他人，并在合适的时候加以褒奖。千万别装聋作哑，如果你不同意他人的看法，说出来就好，但在表达自己的理由时记得面带微笑，这样就可以避免陷入争论。 Don't slouch, fidget, or drink too much - it's not a good look. 不要无精打采、坐立不安，也别让自己喝醉：这都会影响你的形象。 7.Play hard to get. 7.保持神秘感 In another odd turn of human behavior, a study in Psychological Science showed that womenfound a man more attractive when she wasn't sure how strongly he felt about her, asopposed to when she was certain he was very interested in her. 这又牵扯到人类一个奇怪的行为了，《心理科学》杂志的研究表明，如果女人们并不清楚自己在男人心中的地位，则那个男人会更有魅力，然而一旦获知男人对她很感兴趣，那么这个男人似乎就没那么有魅力了。 The study found that women started thinking about a man more when she was uncertain if hereally liked her or not. Then, she would conclude she liked him since she couldn't "get this guyout of her head." 研究发现当女人并不确定男人是否喜欢她时，会不断的想起这个男人。然后她就会觉得已经喜欢上了他，因为这个男人一直在她的脑海挥之不去。 Overall, the study suggested that if men hold back some of their feelings at the very beginning,and create some mystery, he'll be more likely to hook a member of the opposite sex. 总的来说，如果男人们想一直保持最初在女人心中的感觉，那就制造点神秘感吧，这会让你吸引一大批异性哦。 8.Play dumb (but only if you're looking for a fling) 8.装傻（仅限于找一夜情的情况） This one pains us to write. But ladies, if you're looking for a one-night stand, it's best to play itstupid. 我们十分纠结到底要不要列出这一点。如果你想找的是一夜情，那么最好的办法就是装傻。 In a study recently published in Evolution and Human Behavior, graduate students at theUniversity of Texas–Austin found that that men were most attracted to women who appeared"dimwitted- or immature," or "sleepy or intoxicated" for a one-night stand. 德州大学奥斯丁分校的研究生在《进化与人类行为》杂志上近期发表的研究发现，男人更喜欢那些看起来“笨笨的、单纯的” 或“昏昏欲睡醉酒的”女人们来玩一夜情。 Women who appeared quick-witted and lucid, on the other hand, were found less physicallyattractive. 而那些聪明机警头脑清楚的女人反而缺少点魅力。 Thankfully, the opposite was true when men were seeking long-term partners. 不过谢天谢地，在男人们寻找长期伴侣时，结论完全是反过来的。 Ladies—smile! 女士们笑一个！ Ladies, a simple smile will help a guy find you more attractive. 女士们，简单的微笑都能让男人觉得你更有魅力。 【IQ测试：每日互动】 这张图你能找到几张人脸？请仔细找，找好以后查看答案： 好了吗？ ↓↓↓↓↓↓点击阅读原文获取答案 |
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