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【爱情感悟 - 能長久在一起的情侶身上共同的8個標誌】

 音乐人吧吧小丝 2016-11-20








 
 






【爱情感悟 - 能長久在一起的情侶身上共同的8個標誌】



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01、不妥協,能按照自己的方式生活
許多人認為,有時在情侶之間必要的妥協是很有價值的。但是,那種必須放棄自己個性的兩性關係,顯然不能說是融洽的。為了讓兩人的關係長久地持續下去,不去在意對方給自己帶來的壓力,雙方都按照自己的方式生活是很有必要的。
偽裝自己來勉強讓兩人的關係持續下去,還是將真實的自己完全展露給對方,全看每個人自己的選擇。

02、不把兩人放在一起對比,感受當下的喜悅想構築起完美的愛情,必不可少的是由衷地為兩人走到一起感到高興,而不是自私地對比兩人的條件。不管兩人誰實現了夢想或是有了好機遇,都從心底里為對方感到高興是很重要的。

03、不管是多麼艱難的時候,都要互相扶持雖說“安慰”一般是對方被責備時或喝酒時才做的事,然而對於理想的愛情來說,“安慰”則是雙方在困境中互相幫助時必須的。認真地聽對方傾訴心聲,讓他想起曾經的努力與目標。這樣才能幫助他從困境走出來,開始新的生活。雖說能真正解決問題的只有他自己,但如果兩人彼此珍視的話,就應該會拼死幫助對方脫離困境。

04、接受差異,珍視對方珍視的東西生活中許多愛情都是由於雙方有共通的愛好開始的。比如兩人都喜歡運動或者看電影等等。喜歡在大庭廣眾之下表現自己的人,就不太合適憋在家裡畫畫的人吧。無論愛好多麼相似,人也有差別的。能長久維持下去的愛情是這樣一種情感:自己也能接受並珍視對方所珍視的東西。即使那與自己無關,是對方與另一個人一起從事的事情。

05、過去的事已經過去,人要活在當下“戀愛中 最重要的時間點是?”當被這樣問到時,我們就會回想起以前的記憶。雖然回顧過去也很好,但雙方要維持融洽的關係就意味著不要對過去依依不捨,而是一起珍惜現在的每時每刻。只要重視當下,即使面臨著某些問題,兩人攜手也會很容易解決的。

06、不要太耽於心機,有些事要順其自然人在戀愛時,常常會對一些事樂此不疲,比如與對方的周旋、緊張感以及不確定性。事實上雙方因此不歡而散的情況也不在少數。兩個人要想建立融洽的關係,並不需要策略等等的智力遊戲。坦誠地去尋求相互的理解,做本來的自己是很重要的。

07、不要太過依賴對方,彼此自立很重要與上面第二點的一樣,這項在之前的報導中也有介紹。在理想的戀愛關係中,雙方並不是沉溺在這種情感中不能自拔,而是把它看作人生的一種經驗。如果太過依賴對方,我們就會因為不自立而倍感壓力。

08、自己時刻要有心理準備,即使有一天分開了也沒什麼以這一項來結尾,好像聽起來不太合適。然而,理想的愛情也意味著,雙方都能意識到任何變化都有可能到來。那個瞬間,無論在何時到來都不會感到意外。正因為有這種想法,才能構築起人與人之間複雜的人際關係。這裡並不是說所有的愛情都會有終結的那一天,而是通過這樣去理解愛情,才能更自由地去探求人生的真諦。

 
 Can last long together on a couple of common 8 sign

01, don't compromise, in conformity with their own way of life
Many people think that, sometimes in a couple of necessary compromise is very valuable. However, that must abandon their own personality, gender relations, apparently cannot be said to be harmonious. In order to make their relationship lasting continue, not going to care about each other to bring your own pressure on both sides, in accordance with their own way of life is very necessary.
Disguise yourself to reluctantly let their relationship to continue, or will be true to yourself entirely to show each other, it's everyone's own choice.

02, do not put two people together, by contrast, feel the joy of the moment from trying to structure the perfect love, it is indispensable sincerely for two people to come together to feel happy, rather than a selfish person to compare the two. Whoever the two people who had achieved the dream or if there is a good opportunity, all from the bottom of my pleased for each other is very important.
03, no matter how hard it is when you have to help each other, although " comfort " in general is to blame each other or drink when I do, however the ideal love,". " it is in both parties In dire need to help each other. Seriously listen to each other's voices to be heard, reminded him once with the goal of the effort. The only way to help him out from the predicament, start a new life. Although it can really solve the problem of only his own, but if two people cherish each other, then they should will fight to help each other out.

04 accept the differences and cherish each other cherish many things in life are because of the love the two sides have a common hobby started. Like two people are like sports or watch movies, etc. Love the performance in front of their own people, it's not appropriate. You yelling at home painting. No matter how similar hobbies, people also have the difference. As long as it can sustain love. It was such an emotional: itself can accept and cherish each other cherished things. Even if it's anything other than yourself, the other is with another person to engage in things together.

05, what happened in the past, people have to live in the moment " in a relationship the most important point in time is?" when being asked this question at that time, we will look back on previous memories. While recalling the past is also good, but both parties to maintain harmonious relationship means not to past reluctantly, but are now together. Cherish every moment. As long as the immediate attention, even if faced with certain issues, the two together will also be easily solved.

06, don't be too kind to indulge in some things to take its natural in love, tend to some things, such as bored with each other, and the tension and uncertainty. In fact both sides therefore it didn't end well. Two people who want to build a harmonious relationship, and don't need a strategy of intellectual games, etc. Honestly seeking mutual understanding, do have yourself is very important.

07, don't be too dependent on each other, it is very important to each other and stand up to the second point, this is the story before the presentation in there too. In an ideal relationship, both parties and not indulge in this kind of emotion, which in themselves are seen as a kind of life experience. If too dependent on each other, we will not stand but because of the stress.

08, yourself at all times be mentally prepared, even one day apart. Nothing. To this end, for it seems sounds inappropriate. However, the ideals of love also means that both sides can be aware of any changes are likely to come. That moment, no matter when coming in will not be surprised. It is because of this way of thinking, the effect can be constructed between people of complex relationships. Here does not mean that all the love. There will be the end of the day, but through that to understand, love can be more free to explore the true meaning of life.
 
 
 
 

















制作日期:2016.11.20.




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