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经常看到网友吐槽自己糟糕的老板。好老板只有一种，而坏老板却有千万种！员工们给老板起的外号也颇有咬牙切齿之感，比如，虐人狂魔、内分泌失调患者、更年兄等等。你的老板对你好吗？你遇到过坏老板吗？ 一起来感受下本期节目的正能量吧！ 以下是文稿： 特别感谢我们的热心听友戈薇帮忙听写文稿！ Heyang: Have you had to work with a bad, correction there please, difficult boss? If the answer is YES, then we have all the things, all the tips you need to know in how to deal with that kind of situation. Ryan: Yeah, let’s talk about them. So, if you feel like your boss is treating you bad, and you really get the vibe that it’s not just, maybe it’s everyone, but in certain circumstances, if it’ s you, what that means? You should think about it. But one of the best things is to not to take it personally. Because I think, you know work is work, and everybody has different standards. But just make sure that your work as good as maybe the people around you. You know, keep your standard as high as you can. Don’t, and if you feel you’re doing that, then this is your boss’s insecurities. Maybe he’s just worried you’re too much of a rock star. And then one day, you’re just gonna rise that corporate ladder. And leave them in the dust. You know it’s almost just like the ideology of or the way a bully operates. Bullies, maybe see you being happy, they don’t have a good life at home or something you don’t know about, and so they wanna take their insecurities, their problems out on another kids or why not too. So maybe your boss is a bully, just make sure that you’re not taking it too personally. Keep work at work, don’t let it affect you on a personal level. Also guys. If you feel like you’re being disrespected at work, i know that’s frustrating. You wanna just kinda call the quits, you’re like “I’m done working so hard,” “Every time I do the best I can! They just, he’s just so mean or she’s just so mean to me! I can’t win, I give up. No, don’t give up. Never compromise your professionalism, keep working to that level, you yourself think is professional. What else we’ve got Huang Shan? Huang Shan: Oh, no matter how hard you’re going through, maybe your boss is really mistreating you or doing so many mean things to you, you still need to be professional at work. Yeah. Don’t let the bad mood to influence your performance at work. I think that’s really important. Now also if you really really fell so desperate or frustrated, you can talk to someone who you really trust like your family members, your best friend. But maybe keep in mind or pay attention. Don’t talk about the bad words about your difficult boss to your colleagues maybe. Yeah one thing is that you may influence their performance at work or maybe they will use it against you to cause more troubles to you. Heyang: That’s a very good piece of suggestion. And I know sometimes if you’re so stressed out, and you’re feeling so negative about the person that is in charge of your workload and maybe how much money you will be receiving at the end of the month then. I know it’s very hard not to feel negatively about this. But professionalism is very important here and also you need to, sort of keep yourself protected, as in not whine to colleagues like Huang Shan has just said. But what about speaking up? What about, should you do something about if you seriously cannot take it anymore? Ryan: Yeah, speak up, you know what, don’t be afraid to. In this world, the only person that’s really ever gonna have your back or protect you is you. And if you don’t do that for yourself, who else is gonna do it for you? So in which case, if you know you’re being mistreated, this person is just awful to you for no reason and you know that without a doubt, you know, speak up, and also at the same time, when you speak up, no one is split. Know when to leave. So basically, i think what this really all boils down to, all these suggestions, is be a good person at work. Be nice to your colleagues, be professional, don’t let these monsters, whoever they are, whether that they are your colleagues, your bosses, turn you into a monster, always maintain a good level of work ethic and relationships with those who‘re willing to treat you with respect. But don’t be afraid to, if you feel like someone’s disrespecting you, and you’re right, you’re like, You know what, I’m really valuable, I work well, They’re gonna lose me and they’re gonna lose something. You know, don’t be afraid to speak up. Because eventually, maybe this guy’s boss is gonna be like, so wait, You lost Tom? Why? Oh yeah, because he just called me the other day and He said you’re doing this and this. And bah, you’re out of here. Maybe that guy, well you know, have to face up for his actions. But i think speaking up, maybe it helps you and it might help other people who are afraid to speak up as well. Huang Shan: Yeah, and I think if you really cannot bear anymore, but don’t think about quit a job very very like easily. Because now you may have a bad boss, maybe your next boss is even worse. Ryan: Oh, i don’t like that one. You know what, i think you can’t be afraid of the future. And you know what, just keep trying and you’ll find your niche. But i mean, if you feel disrespected, and it’s just getting the point of affecting your personal life, guys, get out, don’t spend your life like that. Heyang: Yeah, well that I agree. But there is a part that I agree with Huang Shan, that is I think you need to evaluate the situation, try to take a minute to see if you can, maybe think in the boss’s shoes, be able to use logic that way. As maybe there is something in you that you need to improve as well as a worker, like try to look at this from two perspectives. Ryan: Yeah, try to be objective. You know like look at this, and just be like ”Am I not doing something?” If you’re not doing something, you should be doing something. Maybe that’s why you’re getting this treatment. Yeah, and bosses, they are human beings too. Maybe not try to think of them as a completely different type of species. Also follow us on Wechat@ ezfmroundtable Weibo@轻松调频RoundTable 企鹅FM@China Plus APP 轻松调频EZFM & China Plus |
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