I find out that after a person abandon the burden to leave a good impression on other people, it turns out that you can feel so steady and sure in your heart. When a person no longer needs to ingratiate himself with others, he can stop being cumbered like me at the moment. 我发现一个人在放弃给别人留好印象的负担之后,原来心里会如此踏实。一个人不必再讨人欢喜,就可以像我此刻这样,停止受累。 —— 严歌苓《无出路咖啡馆》 |
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