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Sometimes when a negative emotion comes up 有时候，如果负面情绪冒出来 I just say: Well, there must be a positive reason, 我会说：“嗯…… 肯定有某个正面的原因” 巴夏： Exactly, 正是如此！ 问： Or I might say, Well, everything is ultimately okay 我也可能会说：“嗯…… 最终，一切都会OK的！” 巴夏： Yes, but that doesn't mean you should ignore it or gloss it over 是的，但这并不意味着 你应该忽视它或掩盖它 Because it is there for a reason 因为它的出现，是有原因的 And the primary reason that you might experience what you're calling a negative emotion is to find out the negative definition that's giving rise to it 而你体验到所谓的“负面情绪”的主要原因，则是为了让你找到 导致它出现的“负面定义” Because emotions can't exist on their own in a vacuum. 因为情绪不可能独自存在于 空无之中（真空） There has to be a definition you're buying into as true in order to experience the emotion that results from the definition 你肯定相信了某个定义为真实的，才会让你体验到“由这个定义所引发”的情绪 So you can use the emotion to trace it back and find the definition by asking the question, 所以，你可以通过情绪，追溯到产生这个情绪的定义，而方式就是问自己这个问题： What would I have to believe is true about myself in this circumstance, in order to feel what I'm feeling. “关于我自己，我到底相信什么是真实的，才会让自己在这种情况下有这样的感受？” That's what having those emotions are for 这才是出现这些（负面）情绪的目的 You own them 你拥有它们 You acknowledge them 你承认它们 And you understand that they're representative of something that you're buying into that you believe is true. 并且，你知道：它们代表着 某些你认定为真实的定义 Find out what the definition is 找出这些定义 Because of it's out of alignment with who you prefer to be. 因为它们和“你想成为的自己”不一致 You need to identify it in order let it go 你需要把它认定出来，才能够将其释放掉 And once you let it go 而一旦你把它释放掉了 Then your energy will change 那么，你的能量会随之改变 And the emotions you experience will change 并且，你体验到的情绪 也会改变 It always works in this direction 它的运转方式，都是以这个方向的： First you have a definition 首先，你下了一个“定义” And you buy into it as a belief 你相信它为真实，于是形成了一个信念 That generates emotions, thoughts and behaviors. 这个信念，滋生出情绪、思想和行为 So any behaviors that you deem are out of alignment with what you prefer 所以，任何时候，当你发现自己有一些与“你所喜好的自己”不一致的行为 Any thoughts or feelings are out of alignment 或任何不一致的想法、感受时 You can always ask that question 你都可以问自己这个问题： What would I have to believe is true in order to behave, think, feel the way I do “我到底相信什么是真实的，才会让我有这样的行为、想法和感受？” Find out what it is 找出它的答案 That's what the processes for 这是这个过程的目的 To let go of the things that are not relevant for you 也就是：让你放下那些与你不相关的信念（事物） To streamline yourself 精简你自己 To lighten yourself up 让自己更轻盈 That's the enlightenment actually means 而这就是“开悟”的真正含义 To lighten yourself 照见自己（让自己更轻盈） And let go of things that are not relevant for you 放下那些与你不相关的事物（为道日损） To find out who you really are at your core. 在你的核心处，找到“你真正是谁” What's your essential self. 发现你的真正本质 Know thyself. “知道你自己” That's the mantra 就是你的真言（咒语） 问： OK 好！ So the functional of just saying “there must be positive reason for this” is just to lighten things up a little bit 那么当我说“发生这事，肯定有某个正面的原因”时，是不是只起到了一点点“减轻”现状的作用 But you still need to dig down and 我还得继续向下挖掘，并且…… 巴夏： You still need to know what the reason is 你仍然需要知道这个“正面原因”是什么 Otherwise if you're unaware of it 否则，如果你对它一无所知 How are you gonna let something go that you don't know what it is 那你怎么可能放手一些“你也不知道为何物的东西”呢？ You're not owning it 你没有拥有它 You're not aware of it. 你没有觉察到它 You can't change what you don't own 你无法改变“不在你手中”的事物 问： But what if the negative emotion goes away after you say that 但如果我一说完这句话，负面情绪就消失了呢？ 巴夏： Does it really go away or does it keep coming back? 是真的消失了，还是不断地回来呢？ 问： Maybe temporarily it might 也许只是暂时消失吧 巴夏： Temporarily 暂时的 which again means you may have simply put off what you will then encounter again later 这再次说明：你可能只是推迟了你们的再次“约会” Because you haven't really found the reason why it's happening. 因为你还没找到 负面情绪出现 的真正原因 If it really never comes back 如果它真的“一去不复返” Then you may have developed a Shorthand Permission Slip that really allows you to let go of the negative belief that was generating it. 那你可能修炼出一种“快手自我意识许可”，让你可以“秒”释放掉产生负面情绪的负面信念 And that's fine if it works for you that way 如果这种方式适用于你，那很好 But most of you don't work that way yet 但你们中的大多数人，还没法做到这样 So if you can, that's wonderful. 如果你能做到，那非常好！ But if it keeps coming back, that should be your first clue that you haven't really let it go 但如果它“反反复复”，那可能这是你的第一个线索，告诉你“你还没真正将其释放掉” 问： Is that a stage and evolution where would be that easy to just say that? 我们有没可能进化到“用一句话就能轻松清理负面信念”的程度呢？ 巴夏： Absolutely. 那是肯定的 Because you realize that you are the ultimate permission slip 因为，你意识到你是“终极的意识许可” And you're making the changes anyway 归根结底，是你导致了那些改变 So you don't then need any other artificial reflection or symbol in order to give yourself permission to let it go 于是，你就不需要任何其他 人为的反射物或象征物，才能允许自己放下这些负面信念 Because you become aware of what they are 因为你能觉察到它们是什么 You're willing to acknowledge that you have certain negative ideas within you 你愿意承认你内心存在一些负面的想法 Please do remember that 请务必记住： as you expand your consciousness 随着你不断扩展你的意识 You may not experience as much negativity, 你可能不会经历到 那么多的负面 But you don't become less aware of negativity. 但你觉察到的负面，并没有变少 You become more aware of negativity 你反而会觉察到更多的负面 Because you become more aware of everything in Creation 因为你能够更加觉察到 造物/神 的方方面面 Which has negative and positive and neutral. 包括正面、负面和中性面 It's a trinity 祂是“三位一体”的存在 The ideas is that when you operate from the balance point at the center, 当你立足于“中心的平衡点” You become much more aware of not only the positive choices 你不仅会更加觉察到 正面的选择 But the possible negative choices as well 你也会更加觉察到 可能的负面选择 Because you're seeing more of existence. 因为你看到了 存在/神 的更多面向 So it's about choosing what you prefer without invalidating what you don't 所以，重要的是：选择你所喜好的，而不去贬低、否认那些“非你的喜好” Because what you don't prefer is just as valid in its own terms as what you do prefer, 因为“非你的喜好”的存在，与“你喜好”的存在，同样合情合理 且必要 But you don't have to experience the effect of what you don't prefer as long as you realize that you're not invalidating it 但只要你意识到 你没有贬低、否认“非你的喜好”，那么，你就可以不需要经历“非你的喜好”所带来的影响 Because invalidating it and putting a negative judgment on it is just adding to the negative energy. 因为贬低它、否认它、负面评判它，只会给它增加负面的能量 Because you're saying it has no value. 因为你说它没有价值 That's negative 而这是负面的 To say that a negative experience has no value is itself amplifying the negative energy 说某个负面经历没有价值，这其实放大了它所带来的负面能量 To recognize it has value gives you the opportunity to use it in the way you prefer positively 而认识到它的价值，则能带给你机会，让你能够以你喜好的方式，正面地使用它 And get the benefit from it, 并从中获得受益 By knowing it has to be there for a reason, 而你需要知道的是：“由于某种原因，它必须出现” But sometimes you may need to know what that reason is 但有时候，你可能需要知道“这个原因是什么” What the actual definition is that generated that particular feeling 需要知道：“到底是什么定义，让你产生了这种特别的感觉” Yes? 明白了吗？ 问： Yes 是的！ 巴夏： Does it help? 这对你有帮助吗？ 问： Yes, it helps 是的，有帮助！ 巴夏： Thank you 谢谢！ 问： Thank you 谢谢您！ |
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