|
Q: Namaskaram. I have big dreams, which I hope will come true. But I am not a person who socializes easily with others and I am scared to face the world. How will I be able to follow my dreams once I finish college, without the fear of my dreams being dismissed? 提问者：你好，我有大大的梦想，希望它们可以成真。但我不太会和别人社交，也害怕面对世界。我如何能在大学毕业后继续追随梦想，而不怕被人笑话？ Sadhguru: When people go to sleep, they have dreams. I am telling you, put your dream to sleep for some time. Do not dream anything now and fix what you will become in the world because it is too early. 萨古鲁：当人们入睡时，他们会做梦。我想说的是，让你的梦想沉睡一段时间。现在对于梦想太早了，先看看自己在这世上想要成为什么样的人。 Put your dreams to sleep for some time because dreams come from past experience of life. 让你的梦想沉睡一段时间，因为梦只是基于你过往的人生体验。 In three to five years’ time, you will be an entirely different person. In reality, even from today to tomorrow, though it may not be a noticeable shift, something would have changed. So, you do not have to think today, “What am I going to do in the world?” because you will only fix up a very small, inefficient dream. Right now, your business is to imbibe as much as you can. Grow into a full-fledged human being – physically, mentally, emotionally and in terms of your intelligence. On all levels, you must become as much as you can become. 三五年后，你会成为完全不同的人。事实上，从今天到明天，你都有所不同，虽然可能只是难以注意到的细微转变。所以，你不需要想：我要在这个世界做什么？因为到头来你只会想出一个渺小的，无效的梦。现在，你要做的是尽可能地去吸收。成长为一个成熟圆满的人类——身体，精神，情感和智慧方面。在所有层面上，你都要尽你所能，去成为你所能成为的。 Ready for the Race 为竞赛而准备 In some way, a dream or an ambition means you are thinking of some kind of a race. They are calling it a rat race these days. If you enter the rat race, it is mainly about who is better than whom. You have to be a rat to qualify. That is a huge backwards step in the evolutionary process. If you win, maybe you are a super-rat, but still a rat. Do not think in terms of, “Where will I be, how much ahead of somebody or behind somebody?” This is a time to absorb as much as you can. This is not a time for you to yield mangoes. This is a time to pluck the damn flowers out and just grow. 从某个方面讲，梦想或者抱负，意味着你处于某种竞赛的思维模式中。如今人们管它叫作“rat race”（老鼠赛跑）。如果你进入老鼠赛跑的模式，那主要就是关于谁比谁更好。你得是个老鼠，才有资格参加这种比赛。这是进化上的巨大倒退。如果你赢了，也许你是一个超级鼠，但仍然是只鼠而已。不要去想“我会在哪里，我会领先别人或落后别人多少？” 现在是你尽可能多地去吸收的时候。 现在还不是结芒果的时候。现在是拔出那该死的花，继续成长的时候。 If you want to win a race, it will not happen just because you desire it. You must build an appropriate machine. What you have is a Maruti 800, but you are thinking of winning a Formula One race. You can dream as much as you want, about how Lewis Hamilton was trying to overtake you, but with your Maruti 800, you went off ahead of him! You can dream all that, but if you go on the track and try to do something, the four wheels of your Maruti will fly in four directions. 如果你想赢得比赛，不是你想赢就能赢的。你得造好一台合适的机器。你拥有的是一台Maruti 800（译者注：印度最受欢迎的轿车之一），却想赢得F1方程赛。你可以尽管做你的梦，想象着Lewis Hamilton都拼命在后面狂追你，你的 Maruti 800就能跑赢他。你可以做这些天花乱坠的梦，但如果你真的上了跑道，试着这么做看看，你的Maruti的四个轮子只会飞向四个不同的方向！ Do not try to win the race. Just build a good enough machine – that is the most important thing. Thinking of winning the race means you are looking back and seeing, “Somebody is behind me.” If you have a bunch of idiots around you and you are winning the race, you will be a better idiot – that’s all. Do not ever think on those lines. Wanting to be better than someone is a wrong direction that has been set for the whole of humanity. This will leave you in a state of strife all the time. Above all, if you enjoy someone else’s failing, it is a sickness. 不要想着赢比赛。只是去打造一台好机器——这是最重要的事。想要赢得比赛意味着你在往后看：“有人在我后头。”如果你周围都是一群白痴，而你赢了比赛，那你充其量也就是一个好一点的白痴——仅此而已。永远不要那样想。想要比别人更好，这是全人类被设定的一个错误的人生方向。这会让你一直处于紧张的状态之中。最重要的，如果你享受别人的失败，那就是一种病。 Beyond Your Dreams 超越你的梦想 What should you do in the world? You should do what is most needed, not what you fancy in your head. What you fancy in your head may be irrelevant to the world. Then what is the point of doing that? Too many people have done what they fancy and destroyed the world in many different ways. If we can joyfully do what is needed, then we will find expression and people will gather and support that activity – then things will happen. 你应该在这个世界上做什么？你应该做时下最需要之事，而不是你头脑中的幻想之事。你头脑中幻想的事可能对这个世界没有意义。那做这个又有什么意义呢？太多人做了他们的幻想之事，并在各种层面摧毁了这个世界。如果我们可以喜悦地去做时下之所需，那么我们就会为其找到表达，人们也会一起来支持——那时事情就会发生。 Put your dreams to sleep for some time because dreams come from past experience of life. Our future should have nothing to do with our past, otherwise we will just recycle the past and think it is the future. Most people’s idea of future is to take a piece of past, apply make up on it and think it is future, a little improved. 让你的梦想再沉睡一些时间，因为梦想都是基于过往的生命体验。我们的未来和我们的过往不该有任何关系，否则我们只是在循环过往，却还以为那是未来。很多人对未来的概念就是：取一小块过往的碎片，在上面化点妆，然后这就是未来了——一点点改进而已。 I want to destroy your dreams. Let them be destroyed, so that you aspire to just grow yourself to your full potential. 我想要摧毁你的梦，让它们被摧毁掉吧，这样你会渴望只是去成长，实现你的全部潜能。 Future should happen new. What you could not dream of should happen in your life – that is my blessing to you. What you could not imagine must happen. If what you could dream happened, what is the use of that? You can only dream what you know. If only what you know happens, it is a poor life. Let something happen that you cannot dream of right now – only then, life is exciting. 未来应该是全新的。你完全梦想不到的应该发生在你的生命中——这是我对你的祝福。你想象不到的必须要发生。如果你可以梦想到的事发生了，那有什么用呢？你只能梦想你已经知道的东西。如果只有你知道的事发生了，那是可悲的人生。让你梦想不到的事发生吧——只有那时，生命才是令人兴奋的。 I want to destroy your dreams. Let them be destroyed, so that you aspire to just grow yourself to your full potential. 我想要摧毁你的梦想，让它们都被摧毁吧，这样你会渴望只是去成长，成为你所能成为的一切。 Editor's Note: Whether you're struggling with a controversial query, feeling puzzled about a taboo topic, or just burning with a question that no one else is willing to answer, now is your chance to ask! Ask Sadhguru your questions at UnplugWithSadhguru.org. 编者注：无论你正挣扎于一个有争议的话题，或是对一个禁忌话题感到困惑，或是被一个没人愿意回答的问题所折磨，现在你的机会来了！登录UnplugWithSadhguru.org抛出你的问题吧！ Love&Grace, Sadhguru 爱与恩典 萨古鲁 |
|
|
