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每个人都有自己的原则和价值观，所以每种关系都意味着需要针对人与人如何相处开展一定的谈判或辩论。你们对彼此的了解，要么让你们关系更密切，要么更疏远。如果你们的原则一致，你们就能够通过妥协互让解决分歧，你们就会更加亲密。否则，你们就会分道扬镳。对分歧进行公开讨论能确保消除误解。如果不能持续这样做，观点的分歧就会扩大，直至爆发大的冲突。 Everyone has his or her own principles and values, so all relationships entail a certain amount of negotiation or debate over how people should be with each other. What you learn about each other will either draw you together or drive you apart. If your principles are aligned and you can work out your differences via a process of give-and-take, you will draw closer together. If not, you will move apart. Open discussion of differences ensures that there are no misunderstandings. If that doesn't happen on an ongoing basis, gaps in perspective will widen until inevitably there is a major clash. |
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