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You must first put something into life before you can expect to get anything out of it. If you want to make your life work, you have to start with how to give. Most people start their life thinking about nothing but how to receive. Receiving is not a problem. Receiving is like the ocean. But you’ve got to make sure you are giving so you can start the process in motion. The problem in life is people want things first. A man will say his wife doesn’t treat him well. And the woman will say that’s because he’s not very affectionate. So they’re each waiting for the other to make the first move, or provide the first proof. Life is an echo. What you send out comes back. What you sow — you reap. What you give — you get. What you see in others exists in you. Regardless of who you are or what you do, if you are looking for the best way to reap the most rewards in all areas of life, you should look to adopt this golden rule as a way of life. 如果你期望从生活中得到什么，首先你必须得付出。如果你想让自己的生活有意义，就必须学会如何付出。大多数人一生下来就只想着如何收获。收获倒不是问题，问题是收获就像个无底洞，是永远无法满足的。但你得确定你在付出，你才可能开启付出-得到这一过程。生活中的问题就是人们总是想先有所收获。一位男士可能会指责太太不温柔，而那位女士则会指责先生不体贴。其实他们都在等对方有所表示，证明自己的爱意。 生活就像回声，你送出什么，就收到什么；你耕种什么，就收获什么；你给予什么，就得到什么。你能在别人身上看到的东西，你自身也一样具备。不管你是谁，做什么工作，如果你想找到最好的方法在生活中的方方面面都获得最大成功，你就应该把这条黄金准则作为你的生活方式。 6. reap 收获 9. adopt 采用；采纳 |
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